Protective, trustworthy, and loving!! All signs point to yes on this, as most of us have seen with not only Dakota, but with his family. Jamie is a good man that cares about the people around him. It is good to see him and Dakota get along so well. In a movie like this, there has to be trust from each other.

During the #AskJamieDornan event today this is one of the questions that Jamie answered.  I think it is truly remarkable that Jamie cares as much as he does for his family. Crushing on you even more Jamie Dornan. We all love that about you!!

I absolutely love candid moments like this. They look like they are enjoying each others company and of course sharing a private joke. Jamie and Dakota both have great sense of humors, which I am sure made things interesting on the set.

“Dakota is great fun, you know, she is funny and we sort of instantly had like a thing where we kind of…I don’t know, sometimes I consider myself to be funny, I guess, which I probably shouldn’t…but like we have that thing where we’re like trying to outdo each other sometimes with humor.” -Jamie Dornan

Dakota posing with a fan outside the Bowery in New York!! Gotta love actors and actresses that are willing to show the people that love them a little love back!!

I think it is about time to set the record straight. In no way shape or form is Fifty Shades of Grey about abuse or rape. It is about a love that develops through some out of the ordinary circumstances for most of us, but it still develops into that passionate and very intense relationship that we have all grown to love about Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele.

I am not saying BDSM is for everyone, but let’s get the facts straight people. BDSM relationships are built on trust, probably a whole lot more trust than most people have with their partner. Each party enters into a BDSM freely and there are parameters drawn. Can you say the same thing about physically abusing or raping someone?! I doubt it.

Here is a little guide to help you understand the differences. Don’t cry wolf too many times, or people stop listening. So let’s get the facts straight and give Jamie, Dakota, and the rest of the cast and crew a break. They are exploring uncharted territory, but I think that is a good thing. Too often people hide behind their insecurities. They are too afraid to voice what they want or need. What are your thoughts?